Why having one child is enough for me.

                                               

      

When I tell people that I don't want to have anymore children I get one of these responses:

• Really, it's that bad?!
• Wait until she's [insert random age here], you'll want another
• Only children are spoiled brats!
• She's going to be lonely!

To answer those questions; 

• Absolutely not, my daughter is the best thing that's ever happened to me. 
• I realize that upon seeing my baby girl, everyone gets baby fever, but that doesn't happen to everyone, and if it does, I'll just get a puppy ;)
• Its pretty rude to generalize only children. My best friend is an only child and is the sweetest girl you will ever meet...
• It may not seem like much to you, but I am her friend. She will never be lonely as long as she is with me!

Paisley is my best friend, my tiny partner in crime. I honestly only have enough love in my heart for her. I have no desire to ever have anymore children. 

I want to teach her as much as humanly possible and I only want to teach life lessons once. 

I want to put all my time and effort into watching her grow up and shaping her into the individual she will be! I owe it to her to put all my love into her and her alone. 

Parents who have multiple children have big big hearts for their multiple children. They have the patience and time to shape more than one baby and watch them grow! I think that's so cool! 

I, positively, only have a heart big enough for my sweet sweet baby girl. And that's okay with me! God will create beautiful babies in the wombs of other women!

I will never stop hearing 'I know you are saying that now, but you'll want another!', and that is something I've learned to accept! My mind will never change, though!

Paisley Jayne is my one and my only! And that's okay with me!

xox